Attitude - Conduct - Etiquette - T & Cs


When you Attend any FetishSwingers hosted event/s you are agreeing you have read all content within this website and will adhere to be bound by it.


   *  Correct attitude, conduct & etiquette is expected by all guests wishing to attend any of our hosted events and part of etiquette is not to question anyone at a party or           

      hosted event within the fetish or swinging lifestyles and or make any individual's/couples have to answer.


   * If someone has asked you to move away and or to stop doing something, you should do so immediately and leave the area or stand back. (Without any question/s)

   * Anyone should not try and or have to explain yourself, or make anyone feel uncomfortable.

   * Although we host Fetish Adult Parties, Sex is NOT Guaranteed and or assumption.

   * NO always means NO! * No thanks means NO not interested.


   * At all times if an incident may arise and or someone wishes to take issue or any sort of disute ocurs or evolves, Find a hosting team member to mediate and or complain on       the event night of those who may of offended or have upset you. (Not when you have gone home and or left event)

  * Do not get involved and or deal with issue yourself - walk away if challenged - if a situation gets a little heated or arises and contact a hosting member of the team. (Staff)


   * Age Restrictions 18+ - 21+ - Over 25+ - I.D. Compliance.
   * Please be advised age restrictions will do & will apply at certain club venues, which are 18+ - 21+ & over 25s.

   * Photo I.D. may also be required at some hosted venues on ocassions, so always contact us prior, and do not take it for granted or presume, and just turn up.

   * We here by give notice it is your responsibility prior to booking, paying or attending as adult/s to make the necessary enquiries with us of any restriction and not presume       until you arrive at the door to enter and your I.D is checked and age verification approved or denied for entry. No different to arriving going holiday at a airport with a non         valid passport hoping to fly and declined. (No Refunds will be given. No Exceptions!)



    We are aware that genuine things happen in life from time to time.

      So should you be in this genuine unfortunate situation unable to attend one of our hosted events at the last minute that you have booked to attend, Please contact us and l        let us know as soon as possible, as we do operate a reseve list on ocassions due to capacity limits and this also assists catering levels when providing food which we                      provide at certain events, that are dependant of guest list numbers, allowing us if need be to make adjustments so not to waste food, and so to keep costs to a minimum.


   * Any Guests wishing to attend a FetsishSwingers hosted event must of pre advance booked (Unless Venue Permits otherwise) and be on the guest list and if you have not             contacted us prior to a hosted event and you are not on our guest list you will be refused entry on arrival. Sorry no exceptions!


   * We may ask for photo I.D. on ocassions at events on your first visit of arrival, this will be advised in your email confirmation from us, and it is Guests responsibility prior to       attending to check and make sure if requested you have proof of I.D. with you, as we are all responsible adults please.


   * Please note we are LGBT friendly, and always aim to not price discriminate at our hosting event venues we secure. (sometimes circumstances may be beyond our control) 

   * Our events may include transgender, transexual, bi, straight, lesbian, cosplayers etc, or any guests wishing to attend who are comfortable to express themselves, enjoying         our FetishSwingers hosted events.

   * Attending a FetishSwingers hosted event you agree to keep all/any opinion/s you may have at home.


   * Please Take note: If you do attend any of the FetishSwingers hosted events you are in agreement by entering any of our hosted events you accept everyones choice to be             how they wish to be. So for that reason anyone who may have an opinion of any other indevidual/s of how they wish to present, dress act or be and unable to keep there               opinion to ones self.

   * Those unable to reframe and allow those that want to express, or feel the need judging those who may apper to them that are different in anyway at any of our event/s are         not welcome and need not book/attend or request to be added to the guest list. Everyone entering our events accept and are in agreement to our Terms and conditons of           entry.


   * Phones - Cameras - Recording Equipment

   * No Phones, Cameras, Any Recording equipmet or otherwise deemed by the hosting events team and or its agents are allowed to be used in the venue or within the                        grounds car parks at any time.

   * You may be be permitted use of your phone ONLY in an Allocated Area and in the presence of a team hosting member (To Check Baby Sitter/s) only prior to consent from a       hosting team member and or its agent if one is specified.

   * Please do not presume its OK to get your phone out and use! ALWAYS ask a hosting team member or its appointed agent to be present as a witness if you need to check             baby sitter/s for instance.


   * Emergencies - Ambulance - Fire & Rescue

    * For clarity for an emergency situation, Dial 999 and inform any hosting team member and or its agent immediately.

    * Procedure/Policy/Training is in place of our staff to guide Ambulance and or Fire & Rescue in the unlikely event and dedidicated personell of the hosting team have been          appointed/trained to support for such a situation if arouse at any time during any FetishSwingers Hosted events. 


    * If a member of the FetishSwingers hosting team and or its acting agent observe or been advised, or has any reason to think a phone, camera or any recording                               equipment has or is being used and or our trust has or being abused, the hosting team and or its agent/s will insist and have the right to view the said item/s in                             question, which is part of entry T&Cs you have consented to by entering at the start of any hosting event of the FetishSwinger hosting team events.


    * The FetishSwingers Hosting team and or any of its appointed agent/s, will request to view any content and may/will make a decision for you to leave straight away and or          have the right to sieze the item of equipment in question. (No Exceptions.)

    *  Please Note: To protect all Guests and staff, There are no chances.


   * Alcohol/Consumption of alcohol/Drinking

   * No Excessive drinking whilst in the venue or before you arrive is acceptable.

   * Please note excessive alcohol drinking could lead you to making decision/s you wouldn’t normally make. If a or any hosting Team member and or agent/s of the hosting             team find that you are above an acceptable limit, (In there opinion) prior to entry you will be refused entry to the venue or if found during the event. you're be asked/told to        leave the venue. (No appeals or refunds)

   * Please also ensure that all drinks/Glasses remain in the dedicated area to avoid spillages if applicable at some hosted venues. Please check individual hosted event venues         for futher policies for clarity if in doubt. * Please do not presume and it is your responsibilty to ask.



   * FetishSwingers hosted events and or its acting agents or venue owners, have a Zero tolerance policy on drugs - This means FetishSwingers hosted events team and or its           acting agents have zero tolerance on using or carrying any illegal drugs. You are not permitted to take any drug/s prior, if wishing to attending any of our Hosted events or       private parties, or whilst you are at any venue we are hosting @ either inside or outside, including car parks. 


   * Anyone showing, acting suspicious, popping out to car/s frequently or found to be taking or under the influence of any ilegal substance/s/drugs, will be removed from the         venue immediately and permanently excluded to attend any future events, if deemed or appears to be in there opinion by any of The  FetishSwingers Hosting team member       or any of its acting agent/s. 


   * We do reserve the right without notice and remind person/s this is a condition,  you have agreed to if attending any of our events and by entering any of our                                   fetishSwingers hosted events accpet full responsibilty and understand the outcome of a call made to the police.

   * This is and may be a condition of our Venue events policy conditions and to protect us and all our guests. (No Appeal/s and or refunds) Do not presume or by way of your           opinion it may be or is ok. Ask prior to attending. Poppers are also not permitted at our hosted events.


  * Personal Space  - Close Contact. Toucing others!

    * Before touching, or joining in with anyone anywhere at any of our hosted event, Permission MUST - IS and should always be sought prior.

    * Even when people are playing maybe in an open space area this does not mean that you can join in without asking permission (CONSENT) prior. (This is nearly always the          first question asked by House monitor, Security or hosting team member/s if in the rare occassion a situation has arouse.)

    * Please also do not approach or TOUCH anyones Equipment -Toys - bags etc without pror consent.

    * There should be no assumption that previous play with a person or group indicates permanent and or future permission during any of our hosted events and we state                Permission (CONSENT) should be confirmed on each occasion prior.

    * Please use your Common-Sense, above all be direct and ASK, and do not just look for other 'Guest members' body language knod. Please respect others wishes and don’t            assume anything.

    * Safe sex and choice is an individual’s responsibility. FetishSwingers do support Safe Sex, However we expect all gentlemen to WEAR PROTECTION, unless it has been                  expressly agreed, consented, otherwise, prior to play has commenced. Always be respectful of some with there choice and we ask do not judge, express maybe your                     opinion  in public, this is a condition of you attending any FetishSwingers hosted event/s..

    * Please be mindful of All other guests at all times, waiting, wishing to use the equipment after your use. * Please ensure that you clean up after yourselves or advise a staff          member if an area needs one of the Hosting Team attention. Please do not walk away moan to friends or others Its fine, lets all have a duty of care and please do not just              ignore it. We are adults attendng and the Hosting team are not there to clear up after guests playing, so please be mindful to All. Never be, or feel embarrased, specially if          your new and or you may of made a little puddle. (Your not the first Lol) Just say to a member of the hosting team.


      * Complaints.

    * If you have any cause to complain about another guest or guests, venue conditions -equipment, toilet roll run out (Yes It can happen) please report this immediately to a            hosting team member so we may endevour to address, rectify the situation on the night of attandance and or prior to you leaving.


   * Conduct - Behaviour standards expected - Acceptable

    * We or any of our hosted venues owners, DO NOT Tolerate ANY sort of agressive behaviour in any form we deem as, including shouting, screaming, disruptive behaviour of        any description within the confines of any of our hosted Venue events or outside in the grounds or in its hosted venue car parks. Including persons causing any form of              disruption or agressive behaviour of any kind to other Geusts or members of the public when arriving or leaving a hosted venue. 

    * THEREFORE : Absolutely No Arguing, Bickering. Any Obnoxious Behaviour, Taunting, Fighting or any forms of Threatening Aggression behaviour we witness in our                    opinion as a hosting team is not accepted from anyone attending any of our events. We expect all our guest to act responsible and act as all adults expect.

    * If you choose and or found to be aggressive, disruptive towards any Guests or any member of the hosting team and or its agents, including Hosted venue owners, you will          be escorted and asked to leave the Venue immediately. Note we will not hesitate to call the police, so think if your details are taken, a follow up visit is needed by them at              your home address and someone there is un aware where you have been and you wish to keep discreet.


   * Smoking - Desinated areas- Vapes - E-Cigarettes.

    * Smoking outside at any of our hosted event venue/s is permitted at some hosted locations, however please respect that some of the hosting team may not smoke and are            not there to pick up discarded dog ends off the floor, even if in the designated area. Use the ash trays, bins provided for your used Butts. Smoking is forbidden anywhere i          inside any of our hosted venues, including Vapes - E-cigarettes at any time.


  * Single Fetish Gentlemen.

    * As no doubt Single Gentlemen you are aware, we constantly have more requests from you to attend than any other form of Guest/s, for discounted pre pay book places to          attend one our hosted events. So for that reason Single Gentlemen who pre pay, pre book must again also confirm via email 48 hours prior to the event they have booked in        to attend stating they have not changed there minds. We enforce this due to others have said this is unfair n them after attending paying a higher price who may of missed        the oppotunity for early bird pre pay entry discount taken only to say others not there then not bothered attending and of us profiting more.

    * If you have prepaid and we are sucessful to allocate your reservation to someone else on the reserve list then at our discretion we may issue you a credit note refund only          and the other person/s benefit of the early bird discount still. Failure to advise 48 hours prior to attending will result in refusal of entry, or a door surcharge applied and            or risk refusal to attend any future hosted events. 


    * The management reserve the right to change or amend these rules without prior notice and by attending one of our hosted events your are accepting all conditions in full on this page.


   * FetishSwingers hosting events team and or any of its acting agents on behalf of, reserve the right to decline entry, bookings and cancel bookings or refuse admimission on the night at the door without given reason.


    * Should a Unfortunate Event Occur where we FetishSwingers and or his agent/s have to cancel a Party, Full Refunds can be given to Pre-Paid Guests by way of a credit for your next event, but we are unable to Refund any other exspenses you may incur including travel, accomadation or hotel fees.


    * FetishSwingers and or it agents, Venue hosts or otherwise, shall not be held Liable and or responsible for any loss or injury may be sustained or may be obtained by any              club attendee/s whilst on the premises at any of our hosted events, in car parks or parking areas of any hosted venue event by Us.

    * The FetishSwingers hosting team and or its acting agents or venue owners, reserve the right to change any policy without prior notice.

    * While attending after aproved acceptance of any of our Hosted Event parties, as a guest you consent to adehre and abide by the rules stated above and agree by them by            way of attending and entering. Failure to adhere/abide by these rules means that you may be asked to leave the venue and or permanently be excuded to attend at a later            date any other future hosted events by the FetishSwingers hosting team and or its acting agents.



 Any doubts or questions. Please do not presume. Contact us in advance and ask.


 Kindest Regards

The FetishSwingers Hosting Events Team.