FetishSwingers Event Etiquette & Rules!

When Attending any of FetishSwingers hosted events you are agreeing to adhere and be bound to the rules below.


Although we host Fetish Adult Parties, Sex is NOT Guaranteed and or assumption.

NO always means NO! No thanks means NO, and correct etiquette is not to question ANYONE AND OR individual's have to answer.

If someone has asked you to move away and or stop doing something, you should do so immediately and leave the area or stand back. (Without any question/s)

Anyone should not try and or  have to explain yourself, or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Find a hosting team member to mediate and or complain on the event night. (Not when you have gone home and or left event) Do not get involved and or deal with issue yourself walk away if challenged does arise.


We are aware that genuine things happen in life from time to time.

So should you be in this genuine unfortunate situation unable to attend one of our hosted events that you have booked to attend.

Please contact us and let us know as soon as possible, as we do operate a reseve list on ocassions and this also assists catering levels which we provide at certain events, that are dependant of guest list numbers, allowing us if need be to make adjustments so not to waste food, and so to keep costs to a minimum.

All Guests wishing to attend a FetsishSwingers hosted event must of pre advance booked and be on the guest list and if you have not contacted us prior to a hosted event and you are not on our guest list you will be refused entry on arrival. Sorry no exceptions!

We may ask for photo I.D. on ocassions at events on your first visit of arrival, this will be advised in your email confirmation from us, and it is Guests responsibility prior to attending to check and make sure if requested you have proof of I.D. with you, as we are all responsible adults please.

Please note we are LGBT friendly, and try always to not price discriminate at our hosting venues we secure. (sometimes circumstances beyond our control) 

Our events may include transgender, transexual, bi, straight, lesbian, cosplayers etc, or any guests wishing to attend who are comfortable to express themselves, enjoying our FetishSwingers hosted events.

Please Take note: If you do attend any of the FetishSwingers hosted events you are in agreement by entering any of our events you accept everyones choice to be how they wish to be. 

So for that reason anyone who may have an opinion of any other indevidual/s of how they wish to present, dress act or be and unable to keep there opinion to ones self and want to express, judging those who may apper to them that are different at any of our event/s need not book/attend and or request to be added to the guest list.

* NO PHONESCameras & or Any recording equipment or otherwise deemed by the hosting events team and or its agents are allowed to be used in the venue or within the grounds car parks at any time.

You may be be permitted use of your phone ONLY in an Allocated Area prior to consent from a hosting team member and or its agent if one is specified. Please do not presume its OK! ALWAYS ask a hosting team member or its appointed agent to be present as a witness if you need to check baby sitter/s.For clarity for an emergency 999 Dial and inform a hosting team member and or its agent immediately.

* If a hosting team member and or its acting agent notices or has any reason to think, believe a phone has or is being used and or trust being abused, The hosting team and or its agent/s will insist and have the right to view your phone which you agree by entering at the start of any hosting event ofthe Fetishswinger hosting team events. They then may/will make a decision for you to leave straight away and or have the right to sieze the item of equipment in question.

Note: There are no chances.


No Excessive drinking whilst in the venue or before you arrive please.

Please note excessive alcohol drinking could lead you to making decision/s you wouldn’t normally make.

If a or any hosting Team member and or agent/s of the hosting team find that you are above an acceptable limit, (In there opinion) prior to entry you will be refused entry to the venue or if found during the event. you're be asked/told to leave the venue. (No appeals)

Please also ensure that all drinks remain in the dedicated area to avoid spillages. Please check individual hosted event venues for futher policys for clarity if in doubt.

Please do not presume and it is your responsibilty to ask.


We have a zero tolerance policy on drugs - this means you cannot take drugs prior you attend our Hosted event parties, or whilst you are at a venue we are hosting either inside or outside. Anyone acting suspicious, popping out to the car/s frequently or found (In the opinion of any host/s or its agent/s) to be taking or under the influence of drugs, acting on behalf of them in there opinion, will be removed from the venue immediately and permanently excluded to attend any future events.

(No Appeal/s and or refunds) Do not presume or by way of your opinion it may be or is ok. Ask prior to attending.


Before touching, or joining in with anyone anywhere at any of our hosted event, Permission MUST, IS and should always be sought first. Even when people are playing in an open area this does not mean that you can join in without asking permission (CONSENT) first.

Please do not approach or TOUCH anyones equipment/Toys bags etc without pror consent.

There should be no assumption that previous play with a person or group indicates permanent and or future permission during any of our hosted events and we state Permission (CONSENT) should be confirmed on each occasion.

Please use your Common-Sense, above all be direct and ASK, and do not just look for other 'Guest members' body language. Please respect others wishes and don’t assume anything.

Safe sex and choice is an individual’s responsibility. Fetish swingers support Safe Sex, However we expect all gentlemen to WEAR PROTECTION, unless it has been expressly agreed, consented, otherwise, before play has commenced but, please always be respectful of some with there choice and we ask do not judge.

Please be mindful of All other guests, waiting, wishing to use the equipment after your use. Please ensure that you clean up after yourselves or advise a staff member if an area needs one of the Hosting Team attention. Its fine, lets all have a duty and please do not just ignore it. We are adults and the Hosting team are not there to clear up after guests playing so please be mindful to All.

If you have any cause to complain about another guest or guests, please report this immediately to a team member so we may address, rectify the situation, on the night of attandance and or prior to you leaving.


We or any of our hosted venues owners, DO NOT Tolerate ANY sort of agressive, shouting, screaming, disruptive, behaviour of any description within the confines of any of our hosted Venue events, grounds or car parks. Including persons causing any form of disruption to other Geusts or members of the public when arriving or leaving a hosted venue. 

THEREFORE : Absolutely No Arguing, Bickering, Any Obnoxious Behaviour, Taunting, Fighting or any forms of Threatening Aggression behaviour we witness in our opinion as a hosting team is not accepted by anyone attending any of our events. We expect all our guest to act responsible and act as all adults expect.

If you choose and or found to be aggressive, Disruptive to any, Guests or any member of the hosting team and or its agents, including Hosted venue owners, you will be escorted and asked to leave the Venue immediately


Smoking outside the venue is permitted at some hosted events, however please respect that some of the hosting team may not smoke and are not there to pick up discarded dog ends off the floor, even if in the designated area. Smoking is forbidden anywhere inside any of our hosted venues, including Vapes/E-cigarettes at any time.

We are not able to offer refunds  

The management reserve the right to change or amend these rules without prior notice and by attending one of our hosted events your are accepting this conditions in full on this page.

FetishSwingers hosting events team and or any of its acting agents on behalf of, reserve the right to decline, bookings and cancel bookings or refuse admimission on the night at the door without given reason.

Should a Unfortunate Event Occur where we FetishSwingers and or his agent/s have to cancel a Party, Full Refunds can be given to Pre-Paid Guests, but we are unable to Refund any other exspenses you mau incur including travel, accomadation or hotel fees.

* Single Fetish Guys:

As no doubt single gentleman you are aware, we constantly have More Prebookings requests than allocated places for the single gentlemen wishing to attend our FetishSwingers hosted events.

So for that reason Single Gentlemen who Prebooked, must secondly confirm your attendance minimum 48 hours prior to attending the pre booked event you have requested to attend, as this is unfair for others who my of missed the oppotunity for early bird entry taken by you at time of booking. (This confirmation from the person who booked to attend is is applicable if you have had a confirmation from us after your original contact to book/attend) 

If you have prepaid and we are sucessful to allocate your reservation to someone else on the reserve list then at our discretion we may issue you a refund. Failure to attend after that will result in refusal of entry to any future hosted events and no refunds are available.  

FetishSwingers and or it agents, Venue hosts or otherwise, shall not be held Liable and or responsible for any loss or injury sustained that may be obtained by any club attendee/s whilst on the premises at any of our hosted events, in car parks or parking areas of any hosted venue event by Us.

The FetishSwingers hosting team and or its acting agents or venue hosts, reserve the right to change any policy without prior notice.

While attending after aproved acceptance of any of our Hosted Event parties, as a guest you consent to abide by the rules stated above and agreed by them by way of attending and entering. Failure to abide by these rules means that you may be asked to leave the venue and or permanently be excuded to attend at a later date any other future hosted events by the FetishSwingers hosting team and or its acting agents.

Any doubts or queston/s, PLEASE do not presume, contact us and ask.

Kind Regards

The FetishSwingers Hosting Events Team.